Gambling
Chinese New Year has begun and other than receiving ang bao, we can hear the usual loud shuffling of mahjong when we visit our relatives. Furthermore, other than the adults gambling, parent also allow their children to gamble, using poker cards, with small bets ranging around 10 cents to $1. As Chinese New Year is only celebrated once a year and they feel that it is alright for the children to gamble in this special occasion. However, I beg to differ as I feel that by allowing the children to gamble, the parents are sending the wrong message to the children that gambling is good and they should do it often, since they are usually the children’s role model. In major cases, students might gamble secretly in school and over time, become addicted to gambling. Therefore, I feel that before letting the children gamble, parents should warn them that they are only allowed to gamble during this special occasion and not elsewhere or else they would be severely dealt with. Although, this solution is not foolproof, it is quite effectively as the children will think twice before engaging in gambling elsewhere.
Gambling addiction is a type of impulse-control disorder. Compulsive gamblers can’t control the impulse to gamble, even when they know their gambling is hurting themselves or their loved ones. They might even steal and rob other for money to gamble. Gambling is all they can think about and all they want to do, no matter the consequences.
The consequences are:
-Strain relationship with closed ones
-Interfere with work and responsibilities at home
- Lead to financial problems
With the recent opening of the Resort world Sentosa’s casino on 14 February, it encourages more people to gamble in Singapore which might lead to more people borrowing money from loan sharks and might cause more family to be broken because their family members are compulsive gamblers. To solve the problem, the government agreed to implement safeguards to limit the negative impact of casino gambling. Singaporeans would be charged an entrance fee of S$100 per entry or a fee of S$2,000 per year if they wish to enter the casino. Casinos would also be prohibited from extending credit to Singaporeans. The police are also stepping up to loan sharks to assure the people that the opening of the casinos would not affect them greatly and Singapore is still a safe place to live and work in .
Individuals and families with gambling problems can ring the hotline 1800-X-GAMBLE or
"1800-9-426253" from 9am-6.30pm on Mondays and Fridays, 9am-9pm on Tuesdays to Thursdays, and 9am-6pm on Saturdays. The hotline is funded by Thye Hua Kwan Moral Society.
Bibliography:
http://helpguide.org/mental/gambling_addiction.htm
http://www.singaporedice.com/compulsivegambling
http://infopedia.nl.sg/articles/SIP_1606_2009-10-31.html
http://www.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Singapore/Story/A1Story20100209-197510.html
Monday, February 15, 2010 | | 0 Comments
Wrong mindset and attitude
“Marcus what are you doing? Swim faster!” This has been often shouted to me during my CCA Waterpolo training sessions by my coach. Coach has always said that I am very lazy, refusing to swim for the ball or swim faster to catch up with my opponent. Some times I agree with what he says that I really am lazy and slacking but other times I seriously am very tired and cannot move anymore.
However, I am not here to criticize my coach but to do some soul-searching and figure out what exactly went wrong.
Personally, I feel that it is both my attitude and mindset that is the problem. My wrong mindset started when I first knew about ACSI and how strong their waterpolo team really is. Their team has a strong 30 players for C division and all of their swimming and techniques are good. As only 15 players can enter the competition, the 15 players are the best of the best. However, for HCI waterpolo team, we do not even have 15 players in Secondary 2. Only after we have included the 3 Secondary 1 DSA players do we have 15 players. Hence, just by these statistics it is clear that HCI has already lost. I know that it is a wrong mindset for athletics to have even before they started playing with their opponents, but I just can’t get this out of my mind. My wrong mindset caused my attitude to be wrong too. Since we cannot defeat ACSI, for what reason do I still train so hard? This question is always ringing in my mind. That is the reason why I don’t take my training seriously.
After much soul-searching did I realize that this should not be the way. So what if we can’t defeat ACSI? We just have to try our best in it and there would still be a chance in winning, thought the percentage is not very high. If we just give up, there will not even be a chance at all. HCI waterpolo team is a strong team and has the potential to achieve, to win, to be the champion. It does not need someone who has a negative attitude and mindset. Hence, I will try my best to change, hopefully before nationals.
Tuesday, February 09, 2010 | | 4 Comments
Moving back, basic courtesy
Everyday when I went home from school, I would see this sign, “ Thank you for moving back. Courtesy, try a little kindness.” at the back of the bus. During the peak hours buses will be packed like sardines and most of the seat will be occupied. However, it is a common sight to see the bus driver failing his hands, urging us to move back and shouting, “ Move back please!” continually and almost unfriendly. So why does our buses need signs and drivers to remind us to move back so as to allow more people to board the bus? Isn’t it basic courtesy to move back? Are Singaporean selfish? Or they simple do not care?
Now let me do an evaluation of why people do not want to move back. From my observation, there are many reasons people do not want to move at the back of the bus.
1.They are alighting soon and it is just ridiculous to move back and forth in such a short period of time and if they did, they might cause even more discomfort to other passengers.
2.They have their friend sitting down while they are standing and want to chat with each other. Hence, they refuse to move back and would rather let other passengers do so.
3.Some passengers just like certain part of the bus better! They prefer standing in the front part of the bus and refused to move back but they try to make space for others to do so.
4.Some passengers are unaware of their surroundings. They are busy talking with friends that they did not notice that other people have moved in and that there is a big gap in between. However, once they are aware of it they will move in.
So from the examples above, you can find out that not all passengers are selfish and only care about oneself. However, it is still not an excuse to not move in and allow other passengers to board the bus. Therefore, Singaporean should try their best to exercise basic courtesy in whatever they do so as to prevent foreigners from getting the wrong impression about Singapore. Everybody has a part to play, so lets play our part TODAY…
Tuesday, February 02, 2010 | | 0 Comments
New School System
What is the future school programme about?
It is about bringing laptops to school and using it in class for lessons. A new teaching method called the JITT – Just In Time Teaching is also introduced. JITT is basically the teacher supplying us with the notes for us to read at home. The teacher will not go through the topic in class. He will only go through the question that we faced while we are reading the notes. The advantage of this method is that it enables us to save more time as we can use the time in class to participate actively in discussion instead of going through the topic. The disadvantage is that those people who are lazy and who doesn’t read the notes that are given to them will not know anything about the topic and will most probably flunk their exams. Therefore, students must read the notes and voice out the questions they faced or they will not be able to understand the topic.
Our class is chosen for this programme because during the e-learning week last year, out of the three Ortus secondary 1 classes, 1o1 and 1o2(this year 2o1 and 2o2) were found to be able to do the e-learning activities more efficiently. Therefore, being able to bring laptops to school is a privilege, however, there is consequences. There is a risk in the laptops being stolen or missing, but there are always risks in everything that we do, thus we will just have to be more careful and have the responsibility of taking care of our belongings.
New subjects. The Oral Communication(OC) and the Independent Studies(IS)
The Ace and Oral Participation(OP) have been split into two different subjects with other components.
Previously, with Ace and OP for each subjects, it is a lot easier to get an A1. Now since it is split up, it is very difficult. So the easiest way now is to get exempted from the EOYs which is no easy feat too since you must be consistently good in all 3 terms.
Ace is now lumped up with projects day whereby Ace takes up 50% and Project day another 50% to make up 100% for IS.
As for OP , it is lumped up with current affairs discussion where OP 40% and Current affairs discussion is 60% to make up 100% for OC.
I shan’t elaborate further or else you guys might get bored or confused. So to sum it all up, it is a lot tougher to get an A1, it is a lot tougher with more subjects to cope with, it is a lot tougher when you are in secondary 2. A long and tiring journey awaits us…
Sunday, January 31, 2010 | | 0 Comments
First Post in months.... New Beginning
For those people out there who don't know the reason for me blogging, I will tell you guys once and for all. I am blogging mainly because it is part of my Language Art and it will be graded. Therefore, I will refrain from showing the Ah Beng side of me and post in English. Although I didn't really enjoyed my blogging experience last year, I will try to post because I want to and not because I need to this year.
As for my blog slogan, I will try to think of something and will post on it at a later date. I hope that you will follow my blog and if you have a blog feel free to post your url at my tag box so I can link. Thanks
A glimpse on my current school life...
The usual routine of waking up early, going to school to attend lessons, sleeping during lectures, end of school, cca, home at 8pm, mug until 11 plus and sleep. However, there is a new feature added in my school life to spice it up, so tune in next time to find out more...
Wednesday, January 27, 2010 | | 0 Comments
What is beauty?
Which is more important? In my opinion, I feel that inner beauty is of course more important than outer beauty though both are important.
Outer beauty is the appearance of the person like whether he or she has combed his hair or put on make-up. It is a beauty that everyone normally noticed, but it is only on the surface.Outer beauty can be easily obtain from all the cosmetics and facial treatment. Furthermore, outer beauty can be deceiving as people might think that you are trustworthy from your appearance but in fact you are not. Outer beauty is important as it gives people a good impression. First impression is very important as it reflects much on your personality. However, some people used their outer beauty to hide their real motive. For example, rich businessmen married young and pretty wives and in turned get cheated by the wives off all their money.
Inner beauty is what people cannot see directly from your appearance. It is the true beauty that everyone should strive to possess. A person with a kind heart and good moral values is what I called beautiful. A person who possess this quality never fails to help other people. These people are selfless. They will not do things that are against their integrity.
In conclusion, outer beauty is selfish while inner beauty is selfless. However one who possess these two qualities is perfect.
A person with true beauty are hard to find. It is not about power or wealth. It is about having a heart of gold that never fails to reach the hearts of people in need, helping them as much as they can.
Here is a video to teach people how to make-up or something.(Not very sure)
Those who are interested in outer beauty can view it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zupy7R4uR2g&feature=channel
Monday, July 06, 2009 | | 0 Comments
What is happiness?
Nowadays, people are more materialistic. They have the wrong perception about happiness. They thought that having a lot of money can bring them happiness by giving themselves more luxury and comfort to their life. However, money has its limitation. Money cannot buy everything. For example: friendships, family, etc. Although money can bring happiness, it is not really long-termed. There is always a day where money runs out. There are some people who want money so much that they sacrifice a lot to get it. They severed ties with family members, break bonds with friends as they betrayed them to get rich and did many unscrupulous things to reach their goal. That is not happiness at all. Without friends and family which brings you warmth, a sense of belonging and stand by your side no matter what. These are what money cannot buy.
Another thing that money cannot buy are smiles. Doing charity to help the poor and the disadvantaged is another form of happiness. It brings smiles to them and give them hope for another day. Here is a video for all of you to feel what money cannot buy.
http://www.cultureunplugged.com/play/1081/Chicken-a-la-Carte
What is happiness to them might not be happiness to us. What some of us want are money, money and more money. While what the people in the video want is another day without worrying about being hungry, another day where they can enjoy a 'good feast' with half eaten drumstick. Watch it and you will see what I mean.
It is true that we still need money to get happiness but money that is just enough for you to carry on living is enough to keep you happy. You just need to be contended with what you have and not ask for more. Only friends and family can give you true happiness. They are the ones who loves you , take care of you without asking for anything in return. They are the ones that help you and most of all they are the ones that accompany you through good times and bad times, standing by you through thick and thin without any complains. To have someone to love you is what true happiness is all about. They are the ones that no amount of money are replace them. They are PRICELESS. Unlike the happiness that derives from money, this happiness last you a lifetime. Though one by one these people may slip away from you, the happy memories you spend with them will always be in your heart, in your mind and stay with you till the day you die. This is what I call true happiness.
Some of you might not agree with me but one thing is certain, happiness is something you must pursue, you must fight for. True happiness will not easy. We need to work hard for the happiness we yearn for. Do not let setbacks ruin your happiness. Although not everyone can be successful in finding their happiness, you should be contented with the things around you. Appreciate them and you too can feel happiness.
Monday, July 06, 2009 | | 0 Comments
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